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Do Any of These Questions Describe You?

New to the Onslow County/Jacksonville area and looking for a homeschool support group that provides a community that's easy to plug into?

New to homeschooling and need help getting started?  

Is it a priority for your homeschooled children to be involved with others their own age?

Want to be part of an active homeschool community that enhances your academic and social goals for your children?

Look no further!!  You've found what you're looking for!!

Agape: A Homeschool Community

Building a Homeschool Community of Support for the Development of Tomorrow's Leaders Through Home Education and Unconditional [Agape] Love

Consider joining Agape today!

Agape Calendar of Events

Agape is an active group with a variety of events offered throughout the year. The types of events that we offer are listed below in the "About Us" link. Agape's Calendar of Events is not open to public viewing for the safety and protection of our members. Agape members can access the calendar with their personalized login and password. Not a member? Please check out the HS Community Calendar where we post community (public) happenings that may be of interest to a homeschooling family.

Standardized Testing (CAT)--Level 3 Day One
Monday, April 22, 2019
08:45 AM - 12:30 PM
Standardized Testing (CAT)--Level 4
Wednesday, April 24, 2019
08:45 AM - 01:00 PM
Standardized Testing (CAT)--Level 5
Friday, April 26, 2019
08:45 AM - 01:00 PM
Standardized Testing (CAT)--Level 1 Day One
Tuesday, April 30, 2019
08:45 AM - 11:30 AM
Standardized Testing (CAT)--Level 1 Day Two
May 1 - Wednesday
08:45 AM
Standardized Testing (CAT)--Level 2 Day One
Thursday, May 2, 2019
08:45 AM - 12:00 PM
Standardized Testing (CAT)--Level 2 Day Two
Thursday, May 2, 2019
RACK: Give a compliment to a friend.
December 1 - Sunday
RACK: Tape change to a vending machine
December 2 - Monday
RACK: Pick up litter
December 3 - Tuesday
RACK: Make a card for a soldier
December 4 - Wednesday
RACK: Take coffee to someone you respect
December 5 - Thursday
RACK: Send a paper hug to someone you love
December 6 - Friday
RACK: Tell silly jokes to make someone laugh
December 7 - Saturday
RACK: Give someone a hug coupon
December 8 - Sunday
RACK: Leave a happy note for someone to find
December 10 - Tuesday
RACK: Do yard work for a neighbor
December 11 - Wednesday
RACK: Donate toys to your favorite charity
December 12 - Thursday
RACK: Candy came bomb a parking lot
December 13 - Friday
RACK: Make a thank you for your librarian
December 15 - Sunday
RACK: Do a chore for someone in your family
December 16 - Monday
RACK: Donate food to your local food pantry
December 17 - Tuesday
RACK: Smile at everyone you see today
December 19 - Thursday
RACK: Take supplies to the animal shelter
December 20 - Friday
RACK: Pay for a stranger's coffee
December 21 - Saturday
RACK: Give treats to the mail carrier
December 22 - Sunday
RACK: Feed the birds
December 23 - Monday
RACK: Take cookies to the fire station
December 24 - Tuesday

See an Event on the Calendar and Need Help Signing Up?

Signing up for events is done directly through the calendar. Clicking here takes you to an instructional walk-through in case you should need further assistance.

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Annual Family Membership Fee = $30.00

If you prefer to pay your family membership fee with a check or money order, please mail to:

Agape Leadership Development
133 Oakley Trail
Jacksonville, NC 28540

Your membership request will be approved upon receipt of payment.

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Group Standardized Testing through Agape

The state of North Carolina requires homeschoolers to take a nationally standardized test each year.  They also "suggest" that the test be proctored by a non-family member. Each spring, Agape Leadership Development offers testing in a group setting using the California Achievement Test by an experienced proctoring staff.  This allows homeschoolers to adhere to the suggestion of having the test proctored by someone other than the administrator.

Agape's testing is available to all homeschoolers regardless of membership affiliation.

How Can I Participate In Agape's Testing?

Agape group testing is available to all homeschoolers.  It is not necessary to be an Agape member to participate.

General Information

  • Tests MUST be ordered through Agape Leadership Development in order to participate in the group testing. 
  • This is a timed test.  Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate special circumstances during testing.  
  • Each testing group has a maximum capacity of 25 students.

How Do I Register?:  Registration is easy!

  1. Visit the Agape Calendar and click on the testing date(s) that match the testing level you desire. (If the test is for Level 1, 2, or 3, click on the first of the two days--only the first date will have the Sign Up link.) 
  2. Follow the steps to Sign Up on the bottom of the event.  Sign up each child separately.  Be sure to spell your student's name(s) the way you want it to appear on their test results. It is also important to select the grade level that your student will be ENTERING next year.  For example, if they are currently a 5th grader, you would select "Entering Grade 6."
  3. Have multiple students in various levels?  Repeat this process for each student.

2019 Testing Details

Ordering Deadline: Monday, April 1

Test Price: $40.00 per student for non-members or $35.00 per student for Agape members (price includes: test, grading, postage, and all supplies)

Testing Dates:  Note that Levels 1, 2, & 3 are two-day tests over two consecutive days while Levels 4 and 5 will test one day only.

  • April 30-May 1--Level 1 (Students entering grade 2)
  • April 24--Level 4 (Students entering 7, 8, & 9)
  • April 22-23--Level 3 (Students entering grades 4, 5, & 6)
  • May 2-3--Level 2 (Students entering grade 3)
  • April 26--Level 5 (Students entering 10, 11, 12, & current seniors)

Testing Times:  9:00 AM - 12:30 PM (Please arrive no later than 8:45 AM. Ending time varies by testing level. This time will be adjusted closer to the actual testing dates.)

Location:  Tar Landing Baptist Church

Methods of Payment:

  1. Paypal funds to  through the registration process on the Agape Calendar.
  2. Mail check to:  Agape Leadership Development, 133 Oakley Trail, Jacksonville, NC  28540.  Be sure payment arrives by the deadline of April 1st.

Testing FAQs

Everything you wanted to know about testing, but couldn't find the answer.

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Solid, reliable information from those that have "been there and done that."

Fee Schedule for One-on-One Advising Services

One-on-One Advising Services are available at the following rates: 

  • $10 per half hour for face-to-face appointments with one advisor
  • $15 per half hour for face-to-face appointments with both advisors
  • $50 per subject for curriculum scheduling (Max. $250) 
  • $100 flat fee for transcript preparation

See One-on-One Advising for full details and/or to schedule an appointment.

NC DNPE Homeschool Guidebook

North Carolinians for Home Education: Frequently Asked Questions about Homeschooling

What's Agape All About?

As a homeschooler, there is a strong need of a sense of community that we can belong to and participate in as we teach and grow our children. Whether you're new to homeschooling or a veteran, Agape Leadership Development is here to meet the needs of your homeschooling family by facilitating relationships among homeschoolers, providing a reliable source of information, and offering events that replicate things that students would "miss" from public/private schools.

Membership in Agape Provides Access to:

  • Informative Seminars for Parents
  • Educational and Social Field Trips for All Grade Levels
  • Holiday and Seasonal Events for All Grade Levels
  • Annual Group Standardized Testing by Experienced Proctors
  • Special Events for Middle and High Schoolers (FLOC)
  • Special Events for Moms
  • Year-End Graduation/Promotion Ceremony for All Grade Levels
  • Customizable and Secure Website
  • Downloadable App
  • One-on-One Homeschool Advising Services
  • Homeschool Classifieds (Buy/Sell/Trade Locally)
  • Collective Library of Internet Resources

Annual Family Membership Fee for Agape Leadership Development is $30.00 and our school year begins August 1st and ends July 31. You can JOIN NOW.  Do you need to PAY NOW?

Still have questions?  Check out our FAQ link.  We're here to help and we hope you'll join us!

Our Mission Statement

We exist to provide an accessible community built on Christian support and accountability to all home educators in Eastern NC with the purpose of unifying, encouraging, empowering, informing, and equipping.

Our Statement of Faith

We believe the Bible to be the inspired and only infallible written Word of God.

We believe that there is only One God, eternally existent in three persons:  God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit.

We believe that salvation is by grace alone, by believing in and accepting Christ as personal Savior. Salvation is only through the shed blood of our Lord Jesus Christ.

History of Agape

The idea behind Agape began in approximately 2004 as a handful of homeschooling families with an interest in their children spending more time together socially.  Those first pioneers thought it was a good idea to combine efforts and travel to field trips and special events--together.  How refreshing was the comradarie between not only the children, but the parents as well.  Being together made us stronger and smarter, made our children happier, and made home education funner . . . more fun.

What do we name a special group like ours?  It was decided that ultimately, what we were all doing was developing the leaders of tomorrow.  The future pastors, congressmen, mothers, military officers, engineers, doctors, etc. were being groomed in our homes to carry the torch forward in our communities.  This reality was the "Leadership Development" part.  Now, what does it take to grow these future leaders in our homes when we, the parents, accept 100% of their education?  It takes an unconditional, selfless love beyond all understanding . . . an Agape love.  So, Agape Leadership Development it was.

As time went on, this "handful" of families invited more of their homeschooling friends, met more strangers in the grocery stores that turned out to be homeschoolers and invited them, and even influenced others that were "on the fence" to gather up the courage and begin homeschooling.  After all, we had each other and we were better together.  So, a handful turned into 50.  Fifty turned into 300, which finally topped out at our record high of 650 families.

With the explosive popularity of homeschooling as parents increasingly lose faith in public eduation, our group has grown.  In our growth, Agape had to be continually creative in the ways we communicated, planned events, accommodated newcomers in desperate need of guidance, and nurtured relationships.  Admittedly, anticipating every need of the large number of members has been overwhelming at times, but we like to think that we've always worked hard to be a beacon in the homeschool community--not only for Agape members, but for all homeschooling families that are within our reach.

Today finds Agape stronger than ever.  As we launch our new website, we can meet even more needs of even more homeschool families.  The capabilities that are opened up to us through this tool will help us reach further than we've been able to in the past and the future looks so bright for us all.  A rising tide raises all ships?  Well, Friend, let's hoist our anchors and journey on . . . together.  Come join us!

Agape Board Members: Hard at Work for You

Click through these folks and learn more about those that volunteer to keep Agape going strong. This is a great way to put a face with the name.

Agape Founder: Carol Oakley

An Onslow County homeschooler with 16 years of experience, Carol has a passion for helping other families on their homeschooling journey. She homeschooled--AND graduated--both of her daughters for the duration of their education. The oldest daughter earned her BS in BioChemistry from Campbell University and her youngest daughter received her AS degree from Southeastern Community College and is currently attending Campbell University to pursue her degree in engineering.

Event Coordinator: Tiffany Rowe

Tiffany is a mom of two elementary children. She has homeschooled for five years and has been part of Agape the entire time. Tiffany feels that Agape has helped her grow as a homeschool mom and gives her a support group for what she does as far as schooling her children. She loves helping with the activities and events during the school year.

Haley Zak

Haley is a mother of 5 and has been homeschooling for 6 years. She is married to a Marine stationed at Camp Lejeune. She has a passion for health, fitness, photography and serving in the church and local community. She has experienced firsthand the joy and blessings that come from being a part of Agape. This is her second year in the group and she is excited to meet, minister, and journey alongside other homeschooling families.

Maria Davis

Maria is a mother of three beautiful girls. She has been homeschooling for three years and has been a part of Agape for the entirety of her homeschooling journey thus far. She is passionate about helping others understand the importance of homeschooling as she had firsthand experience at how public schools can have a negative effect on our children. She is very active in her church and loves how Agape facilitates ways for her children to develop life-long friendships.

Kayla Chavis

Kayla is a mother of 2 wonderful children and has been homeschooling for 2 years. She has been a member of Agape for a year now and has first hand experience as to how helpful this group has been for families on their homeschooling journey. She has a passion for homeschooling and the endless possibilities that it offers children in their education. She is very thankful for Agape and the relationships that have developed over her time in the group so far.

Nancy Robinson

Adrienne Fiedler

Adrienne is a mother of four and has been homeschooling since 2006. Currently she is homeschooling two children, her older children have graduated and are adults. She has a strong commitment to the homeschool community. She enjoys mentoring homeschool parents wherever they are in their path. Adrienne is married to Larry Fiedler and lives in Duplin county. She has been an Agape member for years and values the opportunities offered for families to connect.